Friday, November 21, 2008

Quitting smoking doesn't have to be a lonely task

By Darren Warmuth

Becoming a non-smoker can be a very isolated and lonely voyage if you let it be. The good thing is that it doesn't have to be. Not when there is support available. This is one of the keys to success - whether you find your support via a local group, through your family or friends (be cautious here), or finding it online, it is crucial to your success.

There's several free online message boards on the Internet that those with limited time may find to be a valuable option. It will help you connect with other people who are trying to stop smoking as well; it'll give you a place to talk about your withdrawal symptoms or other challenges that you are facing with your new lifestyle.

Once you have found a message board you like, dig down and you will probably find that it is broken down into differing areas that correspond to the stage of quitting that you are currently in. And as I've said before, even though you think your particular situation is unique, you will most likely find that others before have encountered the exact same situation.

Family and friends, on the other hand, can be a blessing or a curse. They may feel that they are being 'extra' supportive by inquiring repeatedly on how you are doing, but this can become downright irritating and in worst cases, actually cause you to relapse.

Best to deal with this issue before you quit by having a quick conversation with friends and family. Ask them not to incessently query you about 'how you are doing' as with the withdrawal symptoms, it is possible that you will become more easily agitated. Help nip it in the bud before it happens.

One other option is a local smoking cessation meeting that is usually held at a community church, health care center, or sometime even a school. Most of these groups meetings are held either at no cost or very low cost, so everyone can attend.

Community support group meetings generally only last for an hour or so, but they are great place to make personal contact with others striving to become non-smokers. And it is this personal contact with a support buddy that could be just the help you need in staying smoke-free forever.

So before your quit day, be sure to decide on which method or methods of support you are going to use AND then use them! Of all the tools in the quitting smoker's toolbox, support is the most effective of all, so be sure that this is where your quest begins. - 16004

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