Thursday, January 29, 2009

You can beat anxiety

By Kathy Nelson

Anxiety doesn't appear at a time that is convenient for you, often your anxiety attacks will be a total surprise to you and your loved ones. Anxiety attacks affect the whole family not just the person who suffers the actual attack.

When you get into a panic or have extreme anxiety instead of running from the situation, try taking on the feelings of the anxiety and work through it. It can help you to overcome your fear of certain situations. When you become anxious if you run from the situation then your mind will win.

Running away from the things that cause you anxiety is a understandable reaction, if you don't have to deal with it then it can't bother you can it? The problem with running away is that the problem or situation isn't gone and the chances are you will have to face it again.

Sometimes it is just a matter of understanding that your fears can't hurt you, andthat your feelings of anxiety won't hang around forever. Every time you feel anxious you have the opportunity to take on the situation by yourself. It may sometimes scare you to do this, but it can not hurt you.

You have to realize that anxiety and panic can't stay around forever. If you can learn to accept your anxiety then this can help it to disappear. Do not let your anxiety take control of your life to the point that you are scared to do anything.

While your insides may feel like they are going to explode in a ball of panic and fear, the people around you will not know that. There is no need to worry about anyone knowing you are anxious about the social situation. You are in control, no one will know you have a social anxiety disorder unless you let them know.

Positive thinking will help you in your battle against anxiety and panic. It can be hard to be positive when you are feeling a mixture of anxiety, fear and sometimes abject panic. As hard as it is to think positive thoughts it is vital that you do so.

You can not beat any illness until you accept that you have it, it is real and you need to do something about it. You know the people and places that cause you to have anxiety attacks, face them one at a time and deal with them one at a time. - 16004

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